Weddings are primarily selfish occasions in which the spotlight is on you. There’s nothing wrong with this – it should be your special day. However, that isn’t to say that you shouldn’t also make it a special day for everyone else involved. Don’t have your guests all grumbling under their breath wishing they’d spent the night at home watching telly. Make it a warm and inviting occasion for all, a wedding that they will talk about with their friends for all the right reasons.