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Every year hundreds of dollars and endlessly hours of scientific research will be spent fighting cancer. However, it is possible for every one of us to suffer at some point in our lives from any kind of cancer. Many of us might have, or have had, a family member dealing with cancer. Being in a stressful situation like this it can be difficult, especially when we have to care for and support our own much-loved family members. Here are a few tips on making things easier.

Accept the disease

The first step when a family member is diagnosed with cancer is to accept the fact. If you start having questions like ”why and how could this happen to us?” or if you feel angry and even deny the fact, it’s not going to help you. Accepting the disease will help you and the patient themselves to learn more about the diagnosis, the tests and the treatments available. Access all the information you might need in order to decide all together about the treatment plan. Hospitals and other leaders in oncology care will give you the answers to your first or more complicated questions about any type of cancer. 


Give practical-medical care

Once a family member is diagnosed with cancer, treatment might need to start immediately. You must be prepared and ready to support medical care – such as managing and giving medications, and accompanying the patient to the doctors appointments. However, all of this could be easier than it sounds if you educate yourself about the cancer and the treatment plan, and note down all the questions you might have to ask the doctor and nurses. Keeping financial records regarding patient’s expenses, keeping the house clean, shopping and preparing patient’s meals are a few more ways to give all the practical help that a cancer patient will need. 


Give emotional care

Giving emotional care to a cancer patient is not so simple. In fact, it’s the hardest part of the support you will give. Sometimes patients feel guilty, sad or angry, and although they have accepted the disease, they can’t easily cope with all their negative emotions. Staying close to the patient while listening to their concerns will help them be more open about how they feel, or about what they think about every step of their cancer treatment. Don’t pressure them to feel a certain way – they will experience different feelings during the different stages of their illness. Accepting their changing emotions and being supportive as to how they deal with these, will encourage the patient to talk to you, stay relaxed and feel loved by their family. 


Life with cancer/life after cancer

More and more patients, after having a successful treatment, become free from cancer and can go, sooner or later, back to their normal life. Other patients though, need to repeat their treatment more than once and many, unfortunately, might never be cured. Trying to maintain a positive outlook on life, and trying to keep life as normal as possible will help them cope with what’s ahead. Expressing your own feelings about the situation, accepting the bad moments and sharing the love, will comfort and help the family and the patient to deal efficiently and calmly with this very challenging, emotional and tough situation.

What are your tips on caring and supporting family cancer patients? Let us know in the comment section below.

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  1. November 1, 2018 / 2:10 am

    This is such an important post, I’ve had a family member with cancer and I think sometimes it’s just nice to chat about things they love and take their mind of the pain and the treatments:)

    Kate |

  2. November 11, 2018 / 11:34 pm

    I found these very right and important. Specially emotional care.. i cant imagine being in such a situation. Very informative 🙂

  3. November 12, 2018 / 4:25 am

    I think the emotional care during and after treatment is the most important. My dad was diagnosed with melanoma last year. He had surgery and radiation and was cleared of it a few months later. It’s taken him almost a year to recover mentally without being depressed and worried every single day. He finally started to live his life again and it’s been so much better for him and all of us.

  4. November 12, 2018 / 2:26 pm

    Yes, it’s important to make sure you all face the facts instead of living in denial. As hard as it was, I’m always grateful to my parents for telling us upfront when my dad got sick that he WOULD die of his cancer, it was just a question of whether it was a few months or a few years. That helped us cherish the time we had left with him. My husband’s mother has since had cancer as well, and beaten the odds, but they tried to pretend as much as they could like she wasn’t even sick, which wasn’t helpful for anyone.

  5. November 12, 2018 / 4:17 pm

    Supporting a loved one is not easy but these steps are so important. I can’t believe how hard it is to care for someone in this situation, I was medical care wasn’t so complicated so one could purely focus on healing.

  6. Joshua
    November 12, 2018 / 6:58 pm

    This post brings back memories. Have had way too much suffering in my family. Believe that we have done our best to help those in need.

  7. November 13, 2018 / 3:04 pm

    Unfortunately, last few years there is more e na more people that battle with cancer. I think the emotional and support over all is the most needed in that time. So that the person have a streingt through that. It’s hard to deal with something like that…

  8. Becca Wilson
    November 14, 2018 / 6:57 pm

    This is such a beautiful post for some hope. I can not even imagine what it would be like to have a family member with cancer.

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